Long Distance relationships

Sometimes writing down what you feel can make you feel much better...

I felt the need to pen down my thoughts, so that ways I understand what I have gone through to make a long distance relationship successful.

It is a open secret that I love a person. But how when where did this happen is something which is kind of interesting, funny to some extent and needs lots of effort.

I am somebody who would never chat with a stranger or talk to more than a Hi or a Bye. I wont trust people so easily thats been my nature and haven't been able to help it yet. But guess what, now I realize I love a person who is like hundreds of miles away and have not seen him once. Of course, we are in tech century, I saw his photos.
If I were to stand away from what I am today and look at this situation I would obviously find it difficult to digest. Sounds artificial, sounds weird and to some extent illogical. I love a person to live my entire life with him, thats my concept of love. So, how could I think about a person that I havent met to live with him for the rest of my life. Well, that is possible when you look through what you want from a person and if your needs are not his looks then you are on the right track. You should also be someone who is broadminded and trusting the other person to much greater extent than the usual lovers. Are you ? then again you are on right track. But if you mess up his some disguising behavior and suspect him, everything becomes difficult for you to believe. Thats what exactly happened with me. I love him, no doubt. But there was one such situation that I felt, his behavior was disguised and I didnt like it a wee bit. I swear. But, I had no choice to understand what he said and believe what he told.
When you are geographically away from someone, its difficult for you to understand every thing he undergoes. He may be in good mood today or may be in very bad state of mind. He made a dull face which you cant see. He goes out to a store to buy something urgently, but you think he isnt picking up the call intentionally. Poor guy, works all day and comes home and lying on the bed tired but I am hundreds a mile away how will I see that he is tired ???

So..here are the simple examples that I went through. I am still on the way to make my relation a success. But no matter what, I have learnt and understood. People like me, who dont believe anybody and everybody, its hard or sometimes impossible for them to have their long distance relationship working right.

I would strongly suggest, long distance relations are meant only if you have already met that person and you understood him and accidently you have to stay away, then going for it is almost worth it.

If you dont know him, havent met him then better meet him and decide on things as everything takes an effort and sometimes too much effort. I hope anybody like mine and mine would be worth it that much effort. But if you were to start all fresh..why put yourself in so much worries.. this kinda relations can give you whole lots of stress and worries... ... Well, my thoughts are dissected every single day and I come up with whatever I remember. Till then..bye.!

!!! How could you think I could write this..robbed it from somewhere.. I like this kinda articles.. interesting .isnt it ?? !!!